I lost my virginity on a beach at night. Sounds romantic, right? Nope. It was cold. There was wind. Sand got in places where sand shouldn’t be. I don’t even know if it counted as losing my virginity since the cold made my boyfriend a little ‘shy’ and it doesn’t really work when he’s shy.

(Almost) everyone has a first-time sex story to share, and comedian Ilana Glazer took to the streets for her web series, Chronic Gamer Girl, to ask random strangers about the time they lost their virginity. She gets answers ranging from celibacy, to sex on the wedding day, to a 15-year old couple’s romp in the forest. So don’t worry, you weren’t the only one with a cringey awkward first time.

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